BBNaija Season 11 star Joshua “Tram” Alekewumu has broken his silence on the drama with his Italian wife, Olivia Binaghi.
In a lengthy Snapchat story dump, the 24-year-old streamer went raw, accusing her of control, manipulation, and rewriting their story online. According to him, he’s done with the marriage, and he’s ready for court.
Tram Said He Never Wanted the Italian Passport
He began by rejecting the idea that he married Olivia for an Italian passport. He said he has never been to Italy and has no interest in going. 
According to him, she was the one who pushed to move to Nigeria and stay with him. Hence, marriage became the practical option for them after they kept spending heavily on visas and flights.
The reality star insisted the public narrative that he needed her because she is foreign is false. In his words, she came to him, not the other way around, and he believes he was the one who helped her more.
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Money, Control, and Constant Drama
The BBNaija star claimed both of them spent millions in the relationship within a short period, yet she still painted herself as the one who built him.
He called the claim rude and accused her of endless manipulation. He said he was always made the villain who needed fixing while her own issues were ignored.
“We both spent millions in this relationship but you want a refund? I’m tired of the endless manipulation! I’m always the bad guy, I’m the one that needs fixing. But your bipolar self doesn’t ?!” Tram wrote.
What he wanted most, he repeated, was peace and a partner who listened. Instead, he claims all he got were constant complaints, jealousy, control, and public rants. He said he stayed through everything and played roles as therapist, best friend, lover, and husband, until the good memories were erased in moments of obsession.
“I’m Free” – Tram Says
At 24, Tram says he just wants to live his life without the drama. He pushed back at the idea that he used her. He pointed out that she flew to Nigeria multiple times in under six months while he has never visited Italy.
He told her to get a divorce and move on, questioned how much money was even left to fight over, and said her belongings would be sent to her.
“I’m 24, allow me LIVE!…Loving you felt like fuvking hostage. I’m free!” he wrote.
Olivia Binaghi is Not Seeking Revenge
This public response from Tram follows months of tension and earlier accusations from Olivia even before the Big Brother Naija Season 11.
Olivia says she has evidence of what she experienced and will only present it in legal proceedings, not on social media, because she does not want to create more conflict. Her main goals are to get her belongings returned and to move on peacefully. Olivia notes that she has nothing to prove to people who have already made up their minds, and adds that she does not need the man she helped build in order to be the woman she has always been.
The Italian explains that she is speaking publicly only after private attempts to resolve the situation failed as she was blocked, ignored, disrespected, and left without support or a way to communicate. Olivia emphasizes that she is not seeking revenge, attention, or sympathy.
The estranged wife says she is speaking up because she deserves to be heard, to have her belongings returned, and to move forward in peace.
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