Ahmed XM, a trader and one of Africa’s top crypto traders, has warned people who drag, insult and throw shades at his wives and their children.
The trader urged people supporting his first wife, Safiya, and his second wife, Safeera, to stop creating rivalry between them or abusing either woman.
Ahmed XM warns people against crossing the line
Ahmed XM said people crossed the line by bringing his children into discussions about his marriage. He warned that he would take action against anyone who continued to attack his family.
“Alright, guys, let’s address this issue once and for all. It’s about my marriage and everything that is currently going on.
First, I want to address the fact that you guys have crossed the line. I’m making this video to let each and every one of you know that, after this video, I will seriously use someone as a scapegoat.
You guys are quick to forget that, in the last two years, some people have ended up in prison because of me. You are engaging in this gossip because you have nothing better to do with your lives.
What made me make this video is the fact that you guys don’t know your boundaries. You have started bringing my children into whatever is going on in your lives. That is a big mistake, to be honest.
By now, you should know that I’m a very wicked person. Although I joke around a lot, I don’t follow you guys around to explain myself or engage with whatever you are doing.
That doesn’t mean that if I want to take action against you, I won’t. It’s easy, especially here in Nigeria, because there are laws.”
Ahmed XM addresses ‘Team A’ and ‘Team B’
Ahmed XM also addressed people who have created ‘Team A’ and ‘Team B’ around his two wives, Safiya and Safeera. He said those supporting either side do not genuinely care about the women because their actions encourage people to drag and compare them. He said:
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“Now, let’s go straight to those who say they are Team A and those who are Team B, referring to his two wives, Safiya and Safeera.
First, you guys don’t care about these women. If you genuinely cared about them, you wouldn’t set them up to be dragged online.
What pains me the most is that the people doing all this dragging and comparing are women. What happened to women supporting women? What happened to women protecting women?
The painful part is that you attack these women without attacking the man. Why not direct all that energy towards the man?
That doesn’t mean that if you direct all your energy towards the man, he won’t still deal with you, because I will…”

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Ahmed XM warns critics to focus on their lives
The trader urged people involved in the online rivalry to focus on their businesses and personal lives instead of attacking his wives. He continued:
“You guys should focus on your businesses and go and get a man. These women, his wives, have businesses. They are successful and happier than 90% of you on the internet. You don’t know their lives are set for good. They have businesses and children.
Some of you don’t even eat. You don’t have three square meals a day. Some of you don’t have jobs. You are going through hell, but you still come online to drag your fellow women.
You drag other people as if it will make you feel better about yourself. At the end of the day, you will close the video after dragging someone, and you will face your reality. You will face your messed-up life.
Allow these people to live their lives. Allow them to flourish.”
Ahmed XM issues final warning to ‘Team A’ and ‘Team B’
Ahmed XM gave a final warning to people supporting either side of the online rivalry and those who drag, tarnish, defame or belittle either of his wives. He continued:
“Let me just go straight to the point the people supporting Team A and Team B whether you are supporting them or dragging them, tarnishing or defaming or belittling any of them, I’m going to use you as a scape goat. You guys know how I do it.”
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