Detty December may be packing its bags, but love is not on the last flight out of Lagos. The concerts have slowed down, and traffic might take a bit longer to ease, but the city’s usual energy is finally returning.
In my opinion, this is the perfect time for couples to reconnect, away from the noise, without pressure, and without blowing budgets on concert tickets.
Whether you’ve been outside every weekend or you intentionally avoided the chaos as I did, this quieter festive window is prime romance season. Think intentional time, shared experiences, and memories that don’t require shouting over DJs. 
Here are seven fun and thoughtful ways couples can keep the romance alive as Detty December winds down.
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1. Escape Lagos Without Escaping Your Budget
Yes, peace still exists, especially if Detty December drained your social battery. A short getaway can reset everything. You don’t need an expensive trip to the Maldives. Take a trip to a calm environment and have uninterrupted time together.
- Jara Beach Resort is perfect if you want sea breeze, hammocks, and “let’s do nothing together” energy.
- Lakowe Lakes is for you if you want nature, spa moments, golf views, and romance that feels like a mini-honeymoon.
Pack light, switch off notifications, and remember why you like this person in the first place.
2. Make Food the Love Language Again
Because good food has saved many relationships.
There’s something deeply romantic about eating well together, and Lagos has mastered the art of fine dining with feelings.
- Ona Lagos for intimate African-fusion dinners that feel special without being stiff.
- Ajoje Lagos, if you want tasty flavours and conversation starters on the plate.
- Nok by Alara for couples who like culture, calm lighting, and whispering sweet nothings between bites.
Bonus tip: Go earlier in the evening. Post-Detty December fatigue is real.
3. Have an “Art Date” That Sparks Real Conversations
Small talk is overrated. With art dates, you get an experience that naturally leads to conversations, opinions, memories, laughter, and friendly debates.
Start with:
- National Museum Lagos for history and quiet reflection.
- J Randle Centre for Yoruba culture and storytelling.
- O’DA Art Gallery for contemporary pieces that make you ask, “What do you think this means?”
- Nike Art Gallery for colour, texture, and photos that will live rent-free in your camera roll.
End the day at Lekki Arts & Crafts Market and buy something handmade to secure the memory.
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4. Watch a Play Instead of Another Netflix Episode
Yes, real humans acting in front of you.
Plays are underrated date ideas. They’re engaging, emotional, and give you something to talk about afterwards.
Terra Kulture consistently delivers Nigerian theatre that feels real, funny, and sometimes painfully relatable. Perfect for couples who enjoy shared experiences that linger beyond the night.
Also, check out the newly revamped National Theatre in Iganmu, Lagos.
5. Be Playful at Rufus & Bee
Healthy competition and friendly trash talk.
Romance doesn’t always have to be deep. Sometimes, it’s bowling strikes, arcade games, and laughing too hard.
At Rufus & Bee, you can:
- Bowl and pretend you’re competitive
- Play arcade games like children with adult money
- Share food and drinks
It’s flirty, fun, and ideal if Detty December made you forget how to just play together.
6. Try a Dinnertainment Night
Dinner, but dramatic entertaining.
If you want something different from the usual dinner date, dinnertainment spots like The Library or Zaza combine food with live performances, music, dance, comedy, and theatrics.
It’s exciting and perfect for couples who want one last festive thrill without standing for hours at a concert.
7. Reclaim Quiet Nights at Home
Low effort, enough intimacy.
As Detty December fades, home dates hit differently:
- Cook together or order your favourite comfort food
- Light candles, play music, and actually talk
- Share goals, plans, and “remember when” moments
No rush or crowd. Just the two of you.
Final Word
Detty December ending doesn’t mean the fun is over. It only means the noise is gone. This is the season when romance works, when couples can reconnect intentionally, and when love gets easier and warmer. The parties can rest. Whether the traffic clears or stalls, let the romance stay remain active.
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