Yesterday, 9 December 2025, was the birthday of Sandra Areh Chinelo, a church member of Eternity Network International, whose lead pastor is Apostle Joshua Selman.
Many people who attend the church or follow the Apostle are either saying they are in a relationship or hoping they start a relationship and eventually get married.
Apostle Selman himself has hinted at not wanting to get married and would rather focus on his ministry. However, many believe that they may get married soon because they have been close, they are both single, and they always take pictures together at events. Thus, they gave her the nickname “Sel Woman.“ 
Recently, he attended her birthday party and said, “My love, happy birthday.” She held his hands and knelt while he prayed. This sent romantic shippers into a frenzy, as they saw it as irrefutable evidence that they are in a relationship.
Some Background Information
Apostle Joshua Selman met Lady Sandra Areh Chinelo when they were both students at Ahmadu Bello University. Since then, she has contributed actively to the media department of the ministry. Her loyalty and dedication were crucial as the ministry evolved from a campus fellowship into a global movement.
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Should Church Members Ship Their Apostle?
Out of respect for his decision and privacy, making these claims and insinuations may put undue pressure on both of them. If he wants to have a relationship with said woman or get married to her, they should just let it take its own pace. It’s even entirely possible that they have no romantic relationship with each other. The truth is, we don’t know the truth until he speaks up and declares it himself.
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