Do you remember those Nollywood movies where the wife creeps into the bedroom and sees her husband in bed with another woman?
The man, usually Tony Umez, is shocked and informs his wife that it’s not what it looks like, to which she jumps on the bed and starts pouncing on the mistress while screaming.
Well, discovering your cheating partner doesn’t have to be that dramatic; you can do it in discreet ways so you have proof. Here’s what to do:
Clone their WhatsApp
If your partner is a 30+ man or woman who isn’t using Snapchat, where messages disappear instantly, just clone their WhatsApp on your own phone.
All you need is to catch them at a time when their phone is unlocked and they are away; then you can connect their WhatsApp to your phone. Whenever they get messages, you will be able to see them.
If you suspect they’ve been cheating for a while, ask them if you can use their laptop for some purpose. Most people either have WhatsApp on their laptop or have the web version open; filter through the words, and you’ll get all the evidence you need.
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What if they don’t have WhatsApp? Check their bank statements

Even if you don’t have their phone’s password, most banks send email alerts, so filter through those using their laptop.
However, if you have the password to their phone—because why are they hiding it from you? —Then you can see a pattern of the man or woman; they either send the most money to or receive it from their SMS alerts or bank transaction history.
Going through their phones is the perfect way to find a cheating partner out. Credit: nanobanana
Check their Bolt or Uber history.
When you start seeing things like ‘Presken Hotel’, you know you are sleeping with a cheater. Nothing reveals the moves of a cheating man or woman more than where they’ve been.
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Check their Google Maps history
If they have a car and are not likely to use Bolt or Uber, then trace their movements with Google Maps.
Search all the messaging apps, especially Snapchat.
If they have or use Snapchat, you have to focus on that app. All the secrets of a man or woman lie on the phone. You can simply go through all the apps one by one.
Be prepared for what you’ll see. Good luck!