Sharon Ademefun, Davido’s sister, has shared 12 reasons why people would not want to be her friend.
One of the reasons that caught people’s attention came when she mentioned that she would not be friends with someone who is too much of a Davido fan. Others are those with obsessive Davido fan behaviour and always wants to talk about the singer.
Sharon Ademefun Sets Boundaries With Davido Fans
Sharon said she would not want a friend who keeps looking at the door, thinking that Davido is going to walk through at any time. 
She said she has been hurt in the past and explained that it takes a lot of time for her to call someone a friend. She claimed she carries out a one-to-two-year vetting process and uses a checklist when it comes to friendship.
Sharon said her experiences, especially in Nigeria, have changed her and changed the way she builds relationships.
She Wants Friends Who Plan Ahead
Sharon mentioned that she would not go on a girls’ trip with someone who does not have a type-A personality when it comes to planning. She said:
“I’m a type of person that one can say let’s go to Thailand and I’m like I wanna book a year down in advance because first of all I want luxury”.
She also noted that trips booked over a year in advance can cost 20% to 40% less.
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Sharon Talks About Her House Rules
Davido sister said she has Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and does not allow people to wear outside shoes upstairs when her friends eventually make it to her crib.
She also noted that she does not do passive-aggressive behaviour. Another boundary Sharon mentioned concerns money. She said she does not loan money to friends.
“If I want to give you money I would give you money and I won’t expect anything from you but I don’t loan money to friends,” she said.
Sharon also said she cannot be someone’s “because-only friend”.
She Does Not Take Birthdays Too Seriously
Sharon explained that she might not call a friend on their child’s birthday because she might forget. She also admitted that she might forget her friend’s birthday sometimes. However, she said that if she forgets her friend’s birthday or her friend forgets hers, “it’s not that deep”.
She noted that she would not post her friend on Instagram because she feels that friendship posts have become too political.
Sharon Explains Why She Avoids Disorganised Outings
Sharon said she likes going out but does not do it all the time. She explained that she does not like going out in Lagos because it is expensive. She also dislikes disorganised outings.
According to her, most outings often become disorganised.
She Rejects Possessiveness and Social Climbing
Another important boundary for Sharon involves clicks, possessiveness and entitlement, which she described as huge red flags for her.
She also said she does not like it when people famz, which she described as social climbing or when people force themselves into situations and onto her.
Sharon said that behaviour represents the fastest way for her to run in a separate direction.
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