Adeola Adeyemi, popularly known as Diiadem, a beauty entrepreneur and reality TV star, has accused her friend and former colleague, Dabota Lawson, of using bloggers to damage her reputation.
The two women had a public falling-out, with Diiadem making serious allegations about Dabota’s character and conduct in a series of Snapchat posts.
She claimed that Dabota had shared information about her with bloggers and their fallout had led to private concerns becoming public.
Diiadem also claimed that a blog published images of her child during the disagreement, which she found particularly heartbreaking.
“I felt like a failed parent when I saw my daughter’s face on that dirty blog,” she wrote.
Diiadem claimed that Dabota has a habit of using bloggers whenever she disagrees with someone in her circle.
As evidence, Diadem cited an incident in which she alleged that Dabota disclosed Sophia Momodu’s boat narrative to Instagram blogger Cutie Juls.

“Every time you fall out with someone, it seems like your first instinct is to use bloggers to tear them down,” Diiadem alleged.
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Dabota claims she processed Diadem and Churchill’s Bali visas
Dabota Lawson responded bluntly, accusing Diiadem of having a romantic relationship with a married man while maintaining a friendship with his ex-wife.
She claimed that she processed visas for both Diiadem and Churchill for a trip to Bali and had documentation to prove it.
Diiadem also revealed that Dabota sent her N5 million as a birthday gift but later instructed her to return the money. According to Diiadem, Dabota described the act as a “girls game”. She returned the money without hesitation.
Dabota claimed that Diiadem begged her to send money on the day she launched her asoebi sales for her birthday celebration, primarily to encourage others, particularly affluent men, to contribute.
Diadem shares the lesson she learnt from the friendship breakdown
Diiadem wrote on her Instagram page that the situation had been a rollercoaster and said she had no idea how she got herself into the mess.
She said the disagreement with her former friend, Dabota, had taught her that everyone should love and cherish those who genuinely love them.
She wrote:
“As painful as all of this has been, it’s honestly sad to watch it unfold. And if I’m being fair, the person I blame the most is still me.
Because honestly… how did I even find myself in this mess?”“If there’s one lesson l’ve learned, it’s this: love yourself and cherish the people who genuinely love you.”