Let us go back to the ‘Bahd and Boujee’ podcast for a second.
Frank Edoho sat across from Moet Abebe and Tolanibaj and said it plainly: “A man can cheat and still be in love with this woman, not the woman he cheated on. But a woman can’t be in love with someone and go and cheat.”
The internet logged it. Filed it away and said nothing. 
Then 2025 happened. In June 2025, Frank Edoho confirmed the end of his second marriage to Sandra Onyenucheya; suddenly that podcast clip was everywhere again because the timing of it felt almost theatrical in a way that life occasionally is.
When asked on X if he was single, Frank responded, “Yes. I have had my share. Never getting committed again. Ever.”
He also began posting about infidelity, warning men publicly against forgiving cheating partners. He said nothing directly about the rumours that had begun circulating about his wife and a popular singer. He let the internet draw its own conclusions. He positioned himself, quietly but unmistakably, as the wronged party.
On May 14, 2026, Sandra Onyenucheya decided she was done letting him have that positioning unchallenged.
She spoke. And she named names.
Sandra posted on her Instagram under the handle vivabella_designs, and she did not ease into it.
“Surviving a bitch-ass nigga, Frank Edoho,” she opened. “Choosing to remain silent may give mixed signals to the narrative that a sadist and narcissist peddles, making everyone believe he is a victim.”
Then she went in.
She alleged that while she was pregnant with their first child, Frank had a prolonged affair with actress Mbong Amata, not a one-night lapse but a multi-year relationship. She described nights spent crying on the floor, begging him to see her. She described him walking out and not returning for days.
She alleged he tormented her to terminate their second pregnancy because he was in numerous other relationships and, in her words, was not ready to be a father.
She called him a deadbeat. And then she listed what she claims she paid for: his lifestyle, his bills, his business class tickets, his five-star hotels, and his trips abroad. She alleged she single-handedly sponsored the lavish image the public saw, while he reportedly had access to her finances and used them elsewhere.
“He squandered my money on loose women,” she wrote. “So many transactions in Lekki hotels, Airbnbs, lounges, and bars. Sold my property without my permission for chicken change and squandered the earnings within one week on different girls. Documented evidence dey.”
Then she named more names. Adaeze Ugboaja. Tega Dominic, the BBNaija star. Amaka Okeke, whom she claimed Frank brought into their matrimonial home to sleep with while pretending to pursue a sponsorship deal. She described video recording him escorting a woman out of their gate. She described finding him on Snapchat, while away, blowing kisses at a woman in a bikini.
On the Chike Rumours
This is where it gets pointed.
Frank had allowed the online narrative to suggest that his marriage ended because Sandra cheated with singer Chike. The implication, heavily circulated, was that he was the faithful husband betrayed.
Sandra addressed this directly and without apology.
“I was a great wife, a faithful wife to the core,” she wrote. “But a time comes when a woman must choose herself. I chose myself and walked away. Filed for divorce too.”
Then she added: “As an adult woman, I am free to be friends with and date whomever I please. Please move on with your life.”
She is not denying a friendship or more with Chike. She is saying that whatever she chose to do after leaving a marriage she alleges was filled with abuse and serial infidelity is entirely her own business. She is contextualising it. And the context she is providing is significant; she is saying she left. She is saying she filed for divorce. She is saying she was faithful throughout the marriage and chose herself when she finally could.
Chike has not commented. As of the time of publishing, Frank Edoho had also not responded to her post.
SEE ALSO: What “King of Malice” Frank Edoho & Chike’s Alleged Audio Reveal About Relationship Stonewalling
What This Looks Like Now
There is a version of this story where a man cheated, was left, and then went on the internet to position himself as the victim of infidelity because it was more palatable than the truth. There is a version where a woman stayed faithful through years of alleged abuse, rebuilt herself quietly, moved on with her life, and was forced to speak publicly only when the silence became too complicit.
We do not know all the facts. We know what she has alleged, and we know what he has implied. Courts and time and private truth will settle the rest.
But what we do know is this: the man who sat on a podcast and said women cannot love someone and still cheat, who went on X to warn men against forgiving cheating wives, and who let the internet cast his ex-wife as the betrayer in this story, his ex-wife has now told a completely different story.
She says she has evidence and tapes.
And she ended her post not with bitterness but with something quieter and more devastating, a thank you to the family and friends who walked the journey with her and already know the truth.
That line is doing a lot of work.
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